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Gay and Suicidal – Relationship Advice Ask Chauntel

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A viewer who has experienced molestation and is struggling with his self perception writes Chauntel asking about what he can do to encourage his friends and family to accept him for who he is. Chauntel gives him advice on the steps he should take to get his life on track and deal with his spirit of lust, homosexuality, and suicide! Watch!

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Dating Advice – Love After College

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Chauntel answers a viewer’s dating question about how he can find his magic woman in college who he could potentially marry! Listen!
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3 Ways To Avoid Online Dating CatFish

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The world of Online Dating is growing and growing with over 40 million men and women looking for love. It provides an opportunity for many individuals to meet who would not otherwise have had the opportunity to interact with one another.

Catfish are individuals who create a false identity by pretending to be someone that they are not online, many times they do this to pursue online romances.

Here are 3 ways to Avoid a Catfish

1. Find Their Facebook: If they do not have any social media or if their social media does not have photos of them you should be sceptical. Take a look at their photos and their friends. If they have photos with other individuals who are not tagged in the photos that should raise a red flag. Also, if the individual has fewer than 100 friends you should also be cautious.

2. Use the Phone: Have a voice conversation on the phone with the individual that you met online. Communicating through email and text messages alone is not enough.

3. Use the Webcam: The best way avoid dating a catfish is get them to show their face. With new FREE technologies like Skype and Google Hangouts there is no reason why your online lover wouldn’t be able to show their face. If they don’t have a webcam they can buy one for less than $40.

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I Want Out of My Relationship

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Darrah writes,
Hi Chauntel!
I’ve had dreams about me kissing my friend,  but I’ve got a boyfriend. I do feel for my friend, but not in a love way. It’s happened a couple of times and maybe its because I’ve been unsure.
If I want to break up with him because I never see him, and he’s not good at the long distance thing. I live in Aberdare in Wales, and he lives in Newport about and hour and 45 minute drive so can you give me any help.
Hi Darrah,
When you dream it’s your unconscious coming to light. However, conscious or not you have already made it clear that you are ready to let go of your boyfriend.
The distance doesn’t make this any easier. There is no need to drag this out, whether or not you have feelings for your friend, if you want to let go of the realtionship you are in then you have to be brave and do it.
It is not fair to either you or your boyfriend to stay in this relationship if you do not have true feelings for him. So you have to be honest with him, and let him know how you feel, honestly and truly. You can do it. Just pick the appropriate place and time. I hope that you can do this in person. Try to wait until you see him before you break the news.
I Hope This Helps!
Chauntel
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New Poll: Vote: Is Body Image a Mental or Physical Thing?

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We all struggle with loving ourselves for who we are. How do we approach these situations? How do we deal with the struggle? Is it because of how we look physically or it our mental state that defines us?

 

New Video: Please Delete The Video Joe – Ask Chauntel

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A viewer who has been single for 24 years sends Chauntel a video asking women to rate him on a scale of 1 to 10. Chauntel gives him advice on what he needs to do to attract women! Watch! askchauntel@gmail.com

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New Poll: Who Should Pay on a Date?

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This is a new topic that has brought confusion to the dating world? How should this go? Who should pay?

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Does Age Matter in Dating?

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There is so much buzz around the cougars and the older guys with the younger women. So does age matter? See the results of the poll and vote on Ask Chauntel.com here:

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Cheap Date Ideas – Chauntel’s Fun Fridays

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Have a Hot Date coming up and working on a budget? Chauntel gives you some creative date options that will work for your wallet! Watch! askchauntel@gmail.com

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I’m a Big Dude…How Do I Attract a Good Woman?

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25-year-old Donald from Mississippi writes:

Hi Chauntel,

I’m a big dude, and I wanted to know how to attract a good woman? I’m so tired of being alone I’m ready 4 a family. I want to be a provider.

Hi Donald,

If you are ready for a family then, it is time for you to begin to take hold of your life. Pursuing a relationship in your frame of mind is unhealthy.

Before, you begin courting a woman and looking to build a family with her, you are going to have to find confidence in yourself.

So, you need to be confident in who you are before I would recommend that you begin pursuing a relationship.

What does this mean?

Your weight is not the problem, it’s your criticalness of yourself that is going to hold you back. If you don’t like the size that you are, and it is effecting your ability to be confident in who you are, then you need to begin making wiser decisions when it comes to eating right and exercising. This doesn’t mean starve yourself, or be at the gym non-stop.

In fact, in means just the opposite. You need to make a plan for your physical health. For your life, and the life of your future family. Get with a nutritionist who can help map this out for you.

When you begin feeling comfortable with yourself, then we can begin to think about what you need to pursue a long lasting relationship, but it seems to me that you aren’t quite ready.

Going into a long term committed relationship when you are so down on yourself will not be a healthy situation for you or your future spouse. I am glad that you want to begin making positive changes in your life, that is great, but we need to prepare you for those changes.

Be encouraged, it is not all about how you look. The woman is going to eventually look past that once she begins to see who you are. But in this case, you don’t feel comfortable with yourself, and I am not ready to advise you into a relationship until that changes.

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When we get you mentally ready for a relationship after first establishing a love for yourself then we address the second part of your question. You dig?

Be Blessed

Chauntel

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