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In this relationship advice column video for women, I answer the question of a wife who says that her husband cheated on her, but she stayed. How should she handle this infidelity?
Leslie writes about NSSI, Non Suicidal Self Injury:
Hi Chauntel,
I hear you can help girls like me like to stop cutting. Well, my problem is that I am cutting cuz my friend raped me.
Hi Leslie,
Wow, I am so very, very sorry to hear that. I cannot imagine how you feel. I do however, want you to share this with someone that you know and trust, so that you can receive the help and support that you need.
Sometimes, we hurt ourselves to try to ease the pain that others have caused us. What you will learn is that hurting yourself will not ease the pain that you feel from that terrible experience.
I want you to know that God loves you more than you can imagine, and what happened to you is not your fault. You need to report whoever did this to you, for you and for anyone else who might be hurt by this person in the future.
I also, want you to seek some professional help to deal with overcoming the pain that this experience is causing in your life.
To get you started, I want to tell you that turning to self injury is not the answer. It will not take back what happened to you.
What I want you to do is take the power back in your life. Replace this negative behavior with a positive one. This way, you overcome this situation instead of beating yourself up about it.
You need to find out what is triggering you; what is causing you to want to harm yourself. It probably has a lot to deal with not dealing with your feelings.
Turn away from cutting yourself and turn your action into loving yourself and finding that love for yourself again. Do not let this person lead your life. Allow God to lead it for God is love.
You are the only one who can make the change in your life. You cannot erase what happened to you, but you have the power to choose how you will overcome it. I believe in you, and I know that you are greater than this situation. Thank you for being the voice of so many other girls like you. You have great courage, but you were not meant to overcome this alone.
Please, get support and prayer for what you are going through. My community is praying with and for you. I will provide some resources below.
May God bless you, and please know that you are not alone. There are unfortunately others who have been raped and abused, and they have overcome it. You can too. Here is a story of a girl you may relate to. Her story is different, but her coping of cutting herself is the same:
Thanks so much for writing me, it means the world to me.
In this relationship advice q&a I answer the question should she block her boyfriend on Facebook after she pretended to cheat on him. Hi, I am Chauntel a Relationship Coach and Advice Columnist. Welcome to the advice column! Give your advice and ask a question.
In this relationship advice q&a I answer the question should she block her boyfriend on Facebook after she pretended to cheat on him. Hi, I am Chauntel a Relationship Coach and Advice Columnist. Welcome to the advice column! Give your advice and ask a question.
If you have a mother in law who is causing problems and is too involved in your sex life and your future marriage then this is the video for you to watch!
This is a relationship advice q&a, from advice columnist, Ask Chauntel. How to talk to this mamas boy! Please help this Bride to Be tackle the challenge of being caught between the momma’s boy and the mama! Give your advice to this future bride! What should she do? I had so much fun with this relationship advice Q & A! Husband drama is no fun, but let’s rectify it today! We are all about having Christ Centered relationships on the advice column. I share relationship advice on Christian Relationships with Biblical support from 1 Corinthians.
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I wanted to share my response to Ask E. Jean Carollās advice column from Elle magazine. Here is the question:
Dear E. Jean:Ā Iām a 25-year-old marine biologist researching dolphins in Southern California. This past year, I met a man and have fallen very deeply in love. (I didnāt think I was capable of it!) Heās extremely kind, generous, considerate, passionate, thoughtful, attractive, outdoorsy, and adventurous. But he is soon moving to Colorado to pursue his career in the Rocky Mountains. Iām happy that he will be doing what he loves, Miss Eeee, but Iām so sad to lose him! He feels the same about me. Iām not interested in a long-distance relationshipāit seems irrational to commit to someone when we have no future plans to live in the same area. Iām so frustrated by it all! He wants to be in the mountains, and my life is by the sea. What are we to do?Ā āSidetracked in SoCal
Ask Chauntel Response:
Dear Sidetrack in SoCal,
What an exciting career that you have! Now, let me tell you love will make you do crazy things š
If you are ready to be serious with him forget about your long distance limit, and try dating him while he is in the mountains. It will give you both time to see if you are ready for the next step, marriage. Once he is gone for a bit, you will know if you cannot see life without him. That way you will be confident in your decision on if he is the right one to make this huge change for and leave with no regrets. If you rush it before you are absolutely sure, then you might build resentment overtime.
So test out the process, brainstorm alternative careers in the mountains, visit him there and imagine if you can see yourself on the mountain peak away from sea. Then you will know if it is right. Love is worth a chance!
If you will be heartbroken from being separated from the thing you love most, then it would mean he is not the one. At least, you will know that love is possible for you!
If you think you can leave the sea for the mountain peak then my sister I tell you can find other creative ways to use your scientific knowledge out there, and hey if you are in SoCal the beach isn’t too far from the mountains so maybe you buy a home in both places and visit between together! What a fun life you will have!
There are ways to make love and career work together splendidly, the question is, is he the one worth the trouble? If the answer is yes then be flexible, and run away with the prince to find life as a forester fun and exciting. Who knows what adventures await!
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In this Relationship Advice question and answer on the Ask Chauntel Podcast we talk to a Christian Wife who wants to know how to be sexy yet modest with an emotionally distant husband.
If you are attempting to be a better wife to an emotionally distant husband apply these concepts to your life. You can help yourself through the challenges of marriage by addressing the needs of your husband. It is so important that when you are in a marriage you pay attention to the needs of your husband along with your own needs. I would love it if you gave your advice to this relationship advice column question.
Don’t forget to give your advice on Talia’s relationship question below. This is a “Q and A” style advice video. We are all about having Christ Centered relationships on the advice column. I share relationship advice on Christian Relationships with Biblical support from 1 Corinthians.
If you need help on how to forgive your husband and building a better marriage, watch! Overcome divorce with faith.
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In this video, I share my advice to an Ask E Jean advice column reader who wants to know what to do after a breakup. She is heartbroken. If you are looking for an advice columnist who teaches self love and can help you with break up tips watch this! To let go of an ex is so difficult when you want to get over heartbreak. There is a proper way to end a relationship and there are relationship goals that you can make for yourself during and after this process. I hope you enjoy my advice on what she should do after the break up, keep these break up tips in mind for your own relationships! Don’t forget to give your advice on Heartbroken’s relationship question below. This is a “Q and A” style advice video. We are all about having Christ Centered relationships on the advice column.
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