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DATING RELATIONSHIPS AND SOCIAL DISTANCING ADVICE FOR WOMEN – MARRIAGE CORONA & Your Mother in Law

Published on July 6, 2020 by Chauntel DelgadoLeave a comment

In this relationship advice q&a I answer the question should she block her boyfriend on Facebook after she pretended to cheat on him. Hi, I am Chauntel a Relationship Coach and Advice Columnist. Welcome to the advice column! Give your advice and ask a question.

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Relationship Advice Q&A – I Pretended to Cheat on my Boyfriend – Advice Columnist – Ask Chauntel

Published on April 23, 2020April 23, 2020 by Chauntel DelgadoLeave a comment

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9 FUN AT HOME DATE IDEAS TO DO with him (Dating Advice for Women)

Published on April 7, 2020April 9, 2020 by Chauntel DelgadoLeave a comment

Dating at home doesn’t have to mean a lacking in the fun! So, let’s talk about some cool date ideas that you can do right from the comfort of your own humble abode!

What makes these date ideas so intriguing is that they are both inexpensive and romantic. In order to make a stay at home date special, you really have to put time into the planning and execution. That’s what sets it over the top.

I mean let’s face it, when we plan to go out, we spend half-of-the time getting ready, traveling, settling into the date, and then we have to come back home and wind down. So, let’s skip all the fat and get right into the meat of it all, the special time that you spend with him.

1. Sip and Paint

So come up with a concept of something that you both enjoy and paint it together. You could purchase a 3 panel canvas. Each of you can paint an end piece, and you both can paint the center. If you like it enough, you can find a place to hang it in the house. While you are at it enjoy in your favorite beverage and desert.

2. Fireside Chat:

So you could plan and cook a romantic dinner that you would eat together in-front of the fireplace. As you wind-down, you browse through old photos in an album, or choose some new ones from your smartphone together that you might want to print out. After looking at the photos, take some time to reminiscence on great times that you have had together; this will inspire planning time for the future. Hey, while you are at you, you’re creating a great memory.

3. BackYard Picnic:

Changing up the scenery can have a huge effect on how you feel. So, get outside and enjoy nature. When you do, you will find all kinds of little adventures to get into. They may even just be conversations about the world around you. Being in nature has a very calming way with our emotions, and it will bring you that much closer together.

4. Game Night:

So play a guessing-game or board-game and pick a prize. It can be tangible, sexy, or task oriented! Have fun with it! Both of you can choose something that you want from each other and guide the game with it!

5. Bake Together:

Whatever your favorite dessert is you can bake it together. Just make sure that it has a ton of frosting involved! Why? Well, after you bake, say some cupcakes, you each can decorate them how you like. Then, the left over frosting could be used in a kissing game of sorts.

6. Camp Out in the Backyard:

We are not all into bugs, but that might be the fun part of it. Rough it up, pitch a tent and have a small camp fire. You could easily roast some s’mores and hotdog on a stick. Enjoy the goodness by the fire before cozying up with your sleeping bag!

7. Have a backyard Barbecue:

Everybody loves some good eatin’! Let me tell you, you could never go wrong with a good barbecue. So pick out your favorite snacks, put on some fun music, and dance outside while preparing the food. While, the meat is cuein’, take some time to talk about how much you love each other and how thankful you are for one another.

8. Dinner and a Movie:

It’s simple, but I couldn’t leave it out! There is something about a fresh-popped-bag-of-butter-popcorn that gets me every-time. Watching a movie together gives you a chance to share in a common emotions and give passionate reactions. It is also a great way to cuddle and it makes sleeping that much easier!

9. Have a At Home Spa Day:

Who doesn’t love to be pampered? So either pamper each-other or order help in. You defiantly won’t be disappointed when you are both relaxed and settled into your pjs. Relieving stress together brings a bliss into your relationship.

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DO YOU REGRET SAVING YOURSELF FOR MARRIAGE? (Christian Dating)

Published on March 8, 2020 by Chauntel Delgado5 Comments

In this video I share about saving yourself for marriage. What is the untold truth about waiting until wedding night.

This is some Christian Dating advice for those of you are still virgins or want to remain abstinent. I stayed a virgin until I got married at 23 years old. My husband and I met at 17. We dated for 5 years before we were married. So here is my perspective.

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BEING A YOUNG TRADITIONAL CHRISTIAN WIFE

Published on February 5, 2020March 2, 2020 by Chauntel DelgadoLeave a comment

In this video, I share my experience and advice on being a young traditional Christian wife! If you want to be a Godly wife then you should apply these 11 Christian Marriage help tips to your marriage.

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Advice Column: Relationship Q&A: Re: Ask E. Jean: I’m Not Interested In A Long Distance Relationship

Published on November 13, 2019 by Chauntel DelgadoLeave a comment

I wanted to share my response to Ask E. Jean Caroll’s advice column from Elle magazine. Here is the question:

Dear E. Jean: I’m a 25-year-old marine biologist researching dolphins in Southern California. This past year, I met a man and have fallen very deeply in love. (I didn’t think I was capable of it!) He’s extremely kind, generous, considerate, passionate, thoughtful, attractive, outdoorsy, and adventurous. But he is soon moving to Colorado to pursue his career in the Rocky Mountains. I’m happy that he will be doing what he loves, Miss Eeee, but I’m so sad to lose him! He feels the same about me. I’m not interested in a long-distance relationship—it seems irrational to commit to someone when we have no future plans to live in the same area. I’m so frustrated by it all! He wants to be in the mountains, and my life is by the sea. What are we to do? —Sidetracked in SoCal

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Dear Sidetrack in SoCal,

What an exciting career that you have! Now, let me tell you love will make you do crazy things 🙂

If you are ready to be serious with him forget about your long distance limit, and try dating him while he is in the mountains. It will give you both time to see if you are ready for the next step, marriage. Once he is gone for a bit, you will know if you cannot see life without him. That way you will be confident in your decision on if he is the right one to make this huge change for and leave with no regrets. If you rush it before you are absolutely sure, then you might build resentment overtime.

So test out the process, brainstorm alternative careers in the mountains, visit him there and imagine if you can see yourself on the mountain peak away from sea. Then you will know if it is right. Love is worth a chance!

If you will be heartbroken from being separated from the thing you love most, then it would mean he is not the one. At least, you will know that love is possible for you!

If you think you can leave the sea for the mountain peak then my sister I tell you can find other creative ways to use your scientific knowledge out there, and hey if you are in SoCal the beach isn’t too far from the mountains so maybe you buy a home in both places and visit between together! What a fun life you will have!

There are ways to make love and career work together splendidly, the question is, is he the one worth the trouble? If the answer is yes then be flexible, and run away with the prince to find life as a forester fun and exciting. Who knows what adventures await!

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