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Advice Column: Relationship Q&A: Re: Ask E. Jean: I’m Not Interested In A Long Distance Relationship

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I wanted to share my response to Ask E. Jean Caroll’s advice column from Elle magazine. Here is the question:

Dear E. Jean: I’m a 25-year-old marine biologist researching dolphins in Southern California. This past year, I met a man and have fallen very deeply in love. (I didn’t think I was capable of it!) He’s extremely kind, generous, considerate, passionate, thoughtful, attractive, outdoorsy, and adventurous. But he is soon moving to Colorado to pursue his career in the Rocky Mountains. I’m happy that he will be doing what he loves, Miss Eeee, but I’m so sad to lose him! He feels the same about me. I’m not interested in a long-distance relationship—it seems irrational to commit to someone when we have no future plans to live in the same area. I’m so frustrated by it all! He wants to be in the mountains, and my life is by the sea. What are we to do? —Sidetracked in SoCal

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Dear Sidetrack in SoCal,

What an exciting career that you have! Now, let me tell you love will make you do crazy things 🙂

If you are ready to be serious with him forget about your long distance limit, and try dating him while he is in the mountains. It will give you both time to see if you are ready for the next step, marriage. Once he is gone for a bit, you will know if you cannot see life without him. That way you will be confident in your decision on if he is the right one to make this huge change for and leave with no regrets. If you rush it before you are absolutely sure, then you might build resentment overtime.

So test out the process, brainstorm alternative careers in the mountains, visit him there and imagine if you can see yourself on the mountain peak away from sea. Then you will know if it is right. Love is worth a chance!

If you will be heartbroken from being separated from the thing you love most, then it would mean he is not the one. At least, you will know that love is possible for you!

If you think you can leave the sea for the mountain peak then my sister I tell you can find other creative ways to use your scientific knowledge out there, and hey if you are in SoCal the beach isn’t too far from the mountains so maybe you buy a home in both places and visit between together! What a fun life you will have!

There are ways to make love and career work together splendidly, the question is, is he the one worth the trouble? If the answer is yes then be flexible, and run away with the prince to find life as a forester fun and exciting. Who knows what adventures await!

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How to Be a Sexy Christian Wife to a Mean Husband – Relationship Advice Q&A – Ask Chauntel Radio

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In this Relationship Advice question and answer on the Ask Chauntel Podcast we talk to a Christian Wife who wants to know how to be sexy yet modest with an emotionally distant husband.

If you are attempting to be a better wife to an emotionally distant husband apply these concepts to your life. You can help yourself through the challenges of marriage by addressing the needs of your husband. It is so important that when you are in a marriage you pay attention to the needs of your husband along with your own needs. I would love it if you gave your advice to this relationship advice column question.

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Small YouTuber Struggle Story Part 3 – Reinvent Yourself with Me Influencers!

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In this video I share my small youtuber struggle story part 3. If you are thinking about reinventing yourself do it with me influencers!

If you ever wondered if you should start a second YouTube channel let me tell you my journey and story!

I have learned that sometimes if you have to go for it if you want to make an impact, don’t be afraid to take a risk, be completely you and live meaningful Jewel!

I am a Christian Relationship Coach, and I have been giving advice on YouTube sharing my influence for the past 10 years. God is Jehovah Raah, my shepard, and Jehovah Jireh, my provider, he is guiding and providing spiritual gifts within my life. I am so blessed and grateful to share my story with you all! Let’s have some storytime as I share my word of wisdom spiritual gift.

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Ask Ask Chauntel Radio: I Just Had My First Heartbreak — Where Do I Go From Here? Re: to Ask E Jean

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In this video, I share my advice to an Ask E Jean advice column reader who wants to know what to do after a breakup. She is heartbroken. If you are looking for an advice columnist who teaches self love and can help you with break up tips watch this! To let go of an ex is so difficult when you want to get over heartbreak. There is a proper way to end a relationship and there are relationship goals that you can make for yourself during and after this process. I hope you enjoy my advice on what she should do after the break up, keep these break up tips in mind for your own relationships! Don’t forget to give your advice on Heartbroken’s relationship question below. This is a “Q and A” style advice video. We are all about having Christ Centered relationships on the advice column.

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Christian Dating – Should I Date My Best friend?

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20-year-old Morgan from PA writes in for some Christian dating advice from the advice column, and she writes:

Hi Chauntel!

So I have recently started dating a guy I put in the friend zone several times throughout the years of our great friendship. We truly were and still are each others best friends and have always confided in one another. We have been dating for almost 5 months now and we have been doing this long distance because of his commitment to the Military.

Before our relationship started I let my values, beliefs and morals known. Because I have been his “dream girl” for many, many years he said I will be okay with that because I just want to have you. During this beginning stage of interviewing, I asked Jesus into my heart and devoted my life to him. Since doing so I have felt a growing need for my S.O to be on a similar page as me.

I know that God has it covered when it comes to my boyfriend asking Jesus into his heart and believing in the beautiful sacrifice he made for everyone good and bad in the world. I am just beginning to feel insecure about just waiting for that to happen. I’m feeling most secure now because he deploys in a month for 6 months and I feel like I need to know where he is and what he understands about the Christian faith before he deploys to see if it is worth it to continue courting one another.

I am worried of letting myself go through the emotional turmoil of a deployment and it not being worth it. I am also insecure that my boyfriend fell in love with my looks before my character so I’m worried that he sees me as his future wife for the wrong reasons. I’m just a mess clearly. Please send help lol.

Hi Morgan,

I think it is wonderful that you let your values and beliefs known at the beginning of the relationship. I also believe that it is great that you are his “dream girl”, and he accepts you for who you are. However, that alone isn’t going to be enough for the plan that God has for your life.

And yes… I totally agree with the fact that you want to figure this out before he deploys. It wouldn’t make since to make a commitment to a long distance relationship unless you know that it is something that you want to pursue or truly want to invest into.

So, see where he is with his Christian faith. Then, encourage him to build a relationship with God. Just ensure that he is doing it for him, not just to be in a relationship with you. If he does so, then his motivation will not last.

It could be that you help sow the seed for him to build a deeper relationship with God, or you may find out that his heart isn’t in it. At this point, we don’t know. What we do know is, at this point, you two are unequally yoked, and that will cause many challenges in the future.

The Bible tells us to be equally yoked so that our light can shine brighter. The Bible verse is below!

I hope it helps!  Hey Jewels feel free to leave your advice in the comment section below. 

Chauntel xoxo

2 Corinthians 6:14 King James Version (KJV)

14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

 

Wendy Williams Husband Mistresses – Relationship Advice Columns (Christian) – Ask Chauntel

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Wendy William’s husband allegedly has a mistress with a baby coming. Here’s Christian, marriage advice for this celebrity relationship. What is going on in her relationship, and what should she do to get through this tough time. If you are looking for a happy relationship and marriage help then chick out this advice column video from Ask Chauntel. Go vote on my poll on if you think she should stay in this marriage with her husband after everything that he has put her through, watch!

How to Have a Better Marriage – Beyond Sex – Christian Marriage Tips

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This video shares how to have a better marriage beyond your sexual relationship. If you are a Christian women looking for relationship advice and want it from a Christian girl perspective, then check out this video!

 

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How to Attract a Good Man into Your Life – Dating Advice for Young Women

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