Hi I'm Chauntel, a small town girl with a big heart who knows the value of loving God and her family.
I produce relationship advice and natural mommy videos on YouTube. I also coach and train mompreneurs to build a brand that matters so that they can do more of what they love using the YouTube platform.
The world is so beautiful so we should appreciate every second that God has given to us! Peace and Love! Connect with me! @askchauntel
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What are the signs of a toxic relationship? The symptoms are clear. Also, if you don’t know how to stop arguing with your spouse, watch!
Ask Chauntel is a Dating & relationship advice column talk show video with biblical relationship advice Get advice from an online relationship coach and woman of God! If you have relationship questions then Ask Chauntel! askchauntel@gmail.com
It is important that when you are in an interracial relationship or interracial marriage you recognize that you will face prejudices. In this video we address how to overcome those challenges. Plus, I share some black and white married celebrity couples that include black women and white men.
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Here is a dating advice about flirting in person and online. This is a dating & relationship advice column video with relationship advice from a woman of God!
It is important that when you are in an interracial relationship or interracial marriage you recognize that you will face prejudices. In this video we address how to overcome those challenges. Plus, I share some black and white married celebrity couples that include black women and white men.
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Please comment below on your favorite flirting tip! How do you flirt?
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Today let’s dive into relationship questions Jewels! We have an advice column question from Peter.
28-year-old Peter from New Jersey, US writes:
Hi Chauntel,
What do you personally think if a man were to ask his Ex Girlfriend for money? Do you think it is wise?
My Follow-up question to Peter,
What is the relationship with the girlfriend?
His response: To be honest she was sweet & caring but unfortunately cheated.
Hey Peter,
When a man breaks-up with his girlfriend that means that all ties that he had to her should be broken unless there was some other agreement between the two individuals. Considering the reason for the break-up, a clean break was likely. The exception to this rule is if there is a child involved. Otherwise, it will be difficult from him to move on.
Your question was written in the third person, but let’s just assume that man is you. Now, I am going to talk in the first person.
It is unwise for you to ask your ex girlfriend for money especially when she has cheated on you. It will only complicate things further within the relationship. It might well be the reason she cheated in the first place. Women like to trust their men as the provider. Once you start using her as a financial crutch you have lost that respect.
So pick up a second job, get a side hustle, go to your family and friends in a pinch, not to her. In a woman’s mind, he should be taking care of things. He should at least be able to stand on his own two feet. You are not standing on your own two feet if you are needing money from her.
If you start this process it is likely to become a pattern, and it is not one that I want to see you begin for yourself. The time is now to make a change in your life where you can provide for a woman, not depend on a woman to provide for you.
Let Me Know if This Helps!
Chauntel
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We are family vloggers at the Luv 2 Play Indoor Playground. We had so much fun bringing our girls here!
Here is some inspiration on things to do with toddlers. Luv to play is reasonably priced. I also love how they have a place for you to eat while you are there. They have a few great options, and it’s actually good. It is no fun going to a fun place like this and the food tastes gross; I am so glad they take the time to provide tasty food.
We are family vloggers at the Luv 2 Play Indoor Playground. We had so much fun bringing our girls here!
Here is some inspiration on things to do with toddlers. Luv to play is reasonably priced. I also love how they have a place for you to eat while you are there. They have a few great options, and it’s actually good. It is no fun going to a fun place like this and the food tastes gross; I am so glad they take the time to provide tasty food.
You can also do birthday parties there too for a great price. We are thinking of doing one there in the future. This was the first indoor playground franchise that we have been too besides the “original” Chuckie Cheese. I found it to be fun even for me, apparently a big kid, lol.
Proverbs 31 is Explained in this Woman Devotional, Bible Study Vlog, let’s discuss what it means to be a Proverbs 31 Woman today. If you want to know how to let a man lead as a virtuous woman, then check listen to this vlog.
When you are a virtuous woman your price is far above rubies? What does this mean anyway, we discuss it right here in this video blog.
Here is the Proverbs 31 Text discussed in this video blog:
Proverbs 31:10-15 King James Version (KJV)
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants’ ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
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Here is my small Youtuber struggle story. I share why I almost quit YouTube after filming on camera for over 10 years.
Background
YouTube is an amazing platform where you are able to broadcast yourself. There is so much creative freedom that you are given. However, you put in a lot of hours setting up the shot, preparing to look presentable on camera, filming, editing, uploading and optimizing your content. Then you have to go through the work of sharing it properly on social media.
So MuchEffort with a Lack of Results
So, you put in hours for one video, try to keep a schedule, expecting that the return on your investment is going to be great. However, what I realized is that is not always the case. Even if you have great content you will still release your great work of art to crickets if you don’t know how to brand and market yourself.
Being Discovered Was a Challenge
Having discoverability is one of the most challenging aspects of being a YouTuber. If only people could find your content they would watch it. The learning curb on how to be found was very broad for me.
My Breakthrough Finally Came
Once I realized that I could overcome the struggles of being a small YouTuber with some strategic changes, I was encouraged to keep striving towards my goals. I even created new ones. Check out the video for more information on how it all panned out.
I am a Crunchy Christian Mom! In this natural mom vlog we share our family outing with two toddlers at the park. Baby Eden speaks her first sentence! Baby first are sweet!
I am a Crunchy Christian Mom! In this natural mom vlog we share our family outing with two toddlers at the park. Baby Eden speaks her first sentence! Baby first are sweet!
Here is a Nadine West Unboxing! I am a budget mom. I love to open a new subscription box month by month. In this mommy style on a budget, fashion, haul and try on, for Nadine West, I share what I got in my pink subscription box of clothes! See my haul and try on at home.
Here is a Nadine West Unboxing! I am a budget mom. I love to open a new subscription box month by month. In this mommy style on a budget, fashion, haul and try on, for Nadine West, I share what I got in my pink subscription box of clothes! See my haul and try on at home.
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If you need to get life coaching and you are ready for premarital coaching as you are praying for your future husband. Then check out this relationship and self love video for advice.
It is so important that as we seek premarital coaching that we understand the need for loving ourself before we walk into a romantic relationship. Once we have established who we are we will be more prepared for a committed relationship.
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BONUS MATERIAL: FREE GUIDES & TRAINING FROM CHAUNTEL:
I empower women to stop divorce in this inspirational video. Here is some Christian biblical relationship advice for your marriage. In this marriage advice column video we talk about forgiveness.
Forgiveness has the kind of healing power that you need to overcome the pain that you have experienced or are preparing to experience. The question is how, how do we find it within ourselves to forgive whether it is an affair or some type of betrayal learning to forgive is challenging for us all. Can we find it within ourselves to forgive pain that is so deep when it comes into our lives? Let’s talk about it girl!
