Ask Chauntel Updates – AskChauntel.com is Expanding

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If you receive the free weekly newsletter then you have already heard the news. If not, I thought I would share it here.

Ask Chauntel will continue it’s question and answer format responding to viewer, reader, follower, and subscriber questions. However, we are now moving to include inspirational and special interest stories surrounding our vision of becoming the best you!

We have a few interviews posted on our youtube channel of people that I have interviewed and shared their story with you all.

I want to thank you all so much for your support, and let you know that I appreciate you so much.

I hope that you all are accepting of the change and enjoy it.

Lots of Love!

Chauntel

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Vote in Poll: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?

Infidelity is such a hurtful thing to deal with. How do we overcome this social issue? Do people ever change? Can we accept them back into our lives once they have become unfaithful? Vote!

Dating Advice – Love After College

Chauntel answers a viewer’s dating question about how he can find his magic woman in college who he could potentially marry! Listen!
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3 Ways To Avoid Online Dating CatFish

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The world of Online Dating is growing and growing with over 40 million men and women looking for love. It provides an opportunity for many individuals to meet who would not otherwise have had the opportunity to interact with one another.

Catfish are individuals who create a false identity by pretending to be someone that they are not online, many times they do this to pursue online romances.

Here are 3 ways to Avoid a Catfish

1. Find Their Facebook: If they do not have any social media or if their social media does not have photos of them you should be sceptical. Take a look at their photos and their friends. If they have photos with other individuals who are not tagged in the photos that should raise a red flag. Also, if the individual has fewer than 100 friends you should also be cautious.

2. Use the Phone: Have a voice conversation on the phone with the individual that you met online. Communicating through email and text messages alone is not enough.

3. Use the Webcam: The best way avoid dating a catfish is get them to show their face. With new FREE technologies like Skype and Google Hangouts there is no reason why your online lover wouldn’t be able to show their face. If they don’t have a webcam they can buy one for less than $40.

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New Poll: Who Should Pay on a Date?

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This is a new topic that has brought confusion to the dating world? How should this go? Who should pay?

New Poll every Saturday!

Does Age Matter in Dating?

There is so much buzz around the cougars and the older guys with the younger women. So does age matter? See the results of the poll and vote on Ask Chauntel.com here:

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I’m a Big Dude…How Do I Attract a Good Woman?

25-year-old Donald from Mississippi writes:

Hi Chauntel,

I’m a big dude, and I wanted to know how to attract a good woman? I’m so tired of being alone I’m ready 4 a family. I want to be a provider.

Hi Donald,

If you are ready for a family then, it is time for you to begin to take hold of your life. Pursuing a relationship in your frame of mind is unhealthy.

Before, you begin courting a woman and looking to build a family with her, you are going to have to find confidence in yourself.

So, you need to be confident in who you are before I would recommend that you begin pursuing a relationship.

What does this mean?

Your weight is not the problem, it’s your criticalness of yourself that is going to hold you back. If you don’t like the size that you are, and it is effecting your ability to be confident in who you are, then you need to begin making wiser decisions when it comes to eating right and exercising. This doesn’t mean starve yourself, or be at the gym non-stop.

In fact, in means just the opposite. You need to make a plan for your physical health. For your life, and the life of your future family. Get with a nutritionist who can help map this out for you.

When you begin feeling comfortable with yourself, then we can begin to think about what you need to pursue a long lasting relationship, but it seems to me that you aren’t quite ready.

Going into a long term committed relationship when you are so down on yourself will not be a healthy situation for you or your future spouse. I am glad that you want to begin making positive changes in your life, that is great, but we need to prepare you for those changes.

Be encouraged, it is not all about how you look. The woman is going to eventually look past that once she begins to see who you are. But in this case, you don’t feel comfortable with yourself, and I am not ready to advise you into a relationship until that changes.

Feel free to take advantage of my free 15-minute-coaching session by using the coaching coupon. 

When we get you mentally ready for a relationship after first establishing a love for yourself then we address the second part of your question. You dig?

Be Blessed

Chauntel

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What a Guy Should Never Say to His Girlfriend – Chauntel’s Fun Fridays

Chauntel gives a few things that girls don’t want to hear from their boyfriends.

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Vote on AC Poll: Does Age Matter In Dating?

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