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Should I Break-up With My Children’s Father? – Relationship Advice – Ask Chauntel
Hey Guys!
Here is a video that I posted on youtube a while back. I hope you enjoy!
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Chauntel explains what she should do? Should she leave her children’s father of 10 years?
Does he like me? – Dating Advice – Ask Chauntel
Anna writes:
Hi Chauntel,
Okay so there’s this guy at work and my brother also works there and he randomly told the guy that I liked him.. After that he kinda started teasing me copying what I say, spraying water at me, calling me names but he’s always smiling he seems to joke with every body but when we are alone he will start telling me information that I didn’t ask for like him and his girlfriend broke up and why. I added him on Facebook and he started teasing me on there a little bit and the next time we were at work he made a comment like “what are you stocking me now you added me on Facebook” he was laughing when he said it.. So my question is do you think he likes me I’m starting to really like me but I don’t want to waste my time on another person who doesn’t like me every one at work seems to think we like each other and the guy keeps asking if my brother and mom age still making jokes about people thinking we like each other so do you think he might like me or if he’s just joking around to make the time go by faster and should I make a move or let him make the next move.
Hi Anna,
It seems like he is interested in you. Guys don’t spend time talking to girls and being playful when they don’t have any interest in them.
As far as you waisting your time, you work with the guy so I doubt talking to him is such a waste of time. From the information that you have provided, I cannot confirm or deny if he likes you. However, I do encourage you to explore this more.
There is no harm in making time outside of work to hang out. That will give you a better feel for what is going on between the two of you. He could either be playfully flirting with you, or he could just be a funny guy who likes to play around often.
Please keep in mind that dating this guy could get really gummy. One, he seems to have a relationship with your brother. If you guys break-up and he and your brother are still friends that could be awkward. Also, you work together, and I am weary of matching business with pleasure. If it doesn’t work out between the two of you, you will still have to see him at work. It’s totally your call on if you want to take the risk of dating this guy and it being awkward on the chance that it doesn’t work out because of your ties to each other.
The best thing to do in this situation is spend some time getting to know him before you choose to leap right into a relationship with him that you didn’t really want but were just curious about.
Take this thing slow, and choose wisely.
I Hope That Helps!
Chauntel
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We Went to Prom…Does he Like Me? – Relationship Advice – Ask Chauntel
16-year-old Cori from Utah writes:
I recently went to Prom with my long time crush/friend. However, I am still not sure if he likes me because we have been unable to talk because of our schedules. He told me that he does like me, but that was a while ago. We have so much in common and are even family friends. We are both shy which is making it difficult to move out of my comfort zone. What should I do?
I don’t want to ruin our friendship if he doesn’t like me though…
Hi Cori,
Friendships moving into relationships can be quite confusing indeed. I am glad that you were able to go to prom with your crush! You must have had a blast.
The reality is when you date a friend it will definetly change your relationship so you have to be prepared for that. Since you are both shy, you probably haven’t had the guts to express your feelings with each other.
However, you have been friends for such a long time that I think it is appropriate for you to open up and let him know how you feel. If he doesn’t feel the same then it will give him the opportunity to be honest with you. However, if he took you to prom and not someone else, I have a hunch that he is probably feeling the same way you are.
Opening up you heart is risky, and you have to be prepared from him to either share your feelings or reject your feelings. Either way I am sure that he will be gentleman enough to be honest with you and not make you feel uncomfortable.
Its really about having the conversation. Love is worth the risk.
I have done a couple of videos on this topic! Check them out!
Should I Date My Best friend?
How to Make a Friend a Boyfriend/Girlfriend
I Hope This Helps!
Chauntel
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How to be a Smart Guy but Still Attract Girls
Hi Phil,
Hi Chauntel,
Eye, I am a nerd. How can I stay a brainy guy and attract women without dumbing myself down?
Hey Phil,
Be yourself, but don’t make her feel that you are arrogant. Meet her at her level, and make her feel wonderful and beautiful. Don’t spend too much time talking about yourself. Make her feel appreciated, and let her know that you are interested in her by asking her questions concerning who she is.
This will take some of the attention off of you, and make you more appealing to her. Never, dumb yourself down for any woman. You are who you are, and if she cannot accept that, then she is not the right one for you.
Brains are attractive, but arrogance is not.
You dig?
Chauntel
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5 Tips on What do you text a Boy/Girl you just met?
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21-year-old CJ writes:
I’ve been texting this girl for about a week now and the past couple nights she ends up saying she’s goin to bed text me tomorrow and I simply reply goodnight : )
And then she replies with goodnight 😉 I want to keep it interesting when should I text her and how do I keep her interest? Lol thank you so much it feels good to talk to someone about it without people knowing I have a little crush.
Hi CJ!
This is such a cute question. Texting is really just another form of communicating with her.
Before I address your question, about texting specifically, let me say that. You need to find out what extraneous factors are causing her to text good night, not replying to the rest of your messages. Are you texting her too much? Is she too busy to text? Are you texting her at bad times where she is not available to reply back? Is she uncomfortable with the conversations? Or is she simply more of a phone person, and not a “texter”?
Think of it as a way to send her a quick thoughtful note. For example, sending a “Thinking of You” can be very sweet.
Some people enjoy texting more than others, and you can use texting as a way to begin to get to know someone. However, I would definetly not use it as a replacement for talking on the phone, or face-to-face.
With all that said, when you first begin texting someone I think there are a couple of things to consider.
First off,don’t be paranoid. People get so caught up in what to text that they begin over rationalizing what they should say. You should think about what you are typing, just as you should think before you speak, but you should not do it to the point where you begin to have anxiety…haha…
Second,have fun with it. It should be a flirty conversation that leaves both of you laughing and smiling. However, don’t be inappropriate in your flirting where you make her feel uncomfortable. Find ways to make her laugh, mostly at you, or something not someone. You can joke about cute things about her, but be careful with this because you just met her so you are not sure about her insecurities.
Third, talk about her! What is she doing? How is her day? What would she like to do? Where would she like to go? You can reminisce on when you met, where you met, why you were there, and how awesome it was that you met.
Fourth, talk about you doing things together. This will give you an idea of what she enjoys and will put her in the mindset of wanting to see you again.
Fifth,you have to flirt. If you flirt with her through text messages, and she flirts back you know that you are still peaking her interest. If she seems distant it probably means that you are going about this wrong, or it means she is just not that into you.
I Hope This Helps!
Chauntel
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