Eye, I am a nerd. How can I stay a brainy guy and attract women without dumbing myself down?
Be yourself, but don’t make her feel that you are arrogant. Meet her at her level, and make her feel wonderful and beautiful. Don’t spend too much time talking about yourself. Make her feel appreciated, and let her know that you are interested in her by asking her questions concerning who she is.
This will take some of the attention off of you, and make you more appealing to her. Never, dumb yourself down for any woman. You are who you are, and if she cannot accept that, then she is not the right one for you.
Brains are attractive, but arrogance is not.
14 thoughts on “How to be a Smart Guy but Still Attract Girls”
I’d completely agree with that. I’m in my late 30s, geeky and have been online dating since my marriage broke down about a year ago. Some of the most fulfilling dates I have had have been with fellow geeks!
I think the reader needs to ask himself whether he wants a hot girl or one who he can connect with. The former might impress his friends but he won’t be truly happy. The latter will make him feel relaxed, make him laugh and he’ll have a whale of a time – even if she might have purple hair, wear an Atari t-shirt and have a ditzy demeanour 🙂 Being with the “hot” girl is just over-rated.
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