14-year-old Katey writes:

Hey Chauntel!

I have a problem most girls probably have if they have an older brother. I like one of his friends, but I’m not sure what to do because sometimes he seems interested in me and other times he doesn’t.

What should I  do? Is it wrong to date one of my brother’s friends?

Thanks 🙂

Hello Katey!

Of course you can date one of your brother’s friends. However, you should talk to your brother first and see if he is ok with it. There is no use in starting a fight between you and your brother over a guy. Your relationship with your brother is very important.

Also, if you start something up with this guy just keep in mind that he was your brother’s friend first. So if things go sour, you will probably have to deal with the awkwardness of seeming him around. If you are ok with that and your brother gives his blessing go for it!.

I Hope This Helps!

Chauntel

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